From within the Ireland womenās camp, slowly but surely, the good-will appears to have evaporated for Vera Pauw.
Letās rewind for a second.
When Martin OāNeill stepped down as Ireland manager in 2018, Jon Walters and Jeff Hendrick were among the players who wished him an emotional goodbye on social media.
āHave many great memories that will stay with me for life. Thank you boss,ā said Hendrick.
āI have the utmost respect for Martin,ā said Walters, āas he is and always has been fantastic for me.ā
Social media goodbyes and well-wishes have, naturally with the growth of the various platforms, become even more prevalent in the mean-time to the extent that now, when a manager leaves a club or a country, itās almost seen as the done-thing.
But Pauwās removal as Irish womenās manager has, on the other hand, been met with radio silence from her players.
There hasnāt been one thank you or one goodbye from the players she guided to the World Cup in Australia. This canāt be perceived in any other way as being strange.
The āreal negative distraction,ā as Katie McCabe described it, of the anonymous allegations of bullying during her time as Houston Dash coach certainly seems to have been something of a tipping point.
These allegations, published by the Athletic, came out very close to the World Cup and the mood-music never really seemed to recover thereafter.
The detailed report, as it is being described, that was compiled by mainly players and management and heard at the FAI Board meeting on Tuesday ā the meeting that eventually decided on Pauwās dismissal ā will certainly make for an interesting read should it be shared.
For now though, weāre all on the outside looking in, and from that standpoint, former Irish internationals Keith Treacy and Damien Delaney made some interesting points on Virgin Media on Wednesday night.
āFrom the outside looking in, when you look at it from a footballing perspective, sheās been harshly-done-by,ā said Treacy.
āWhen you see the thing with Katie McCabe, throwing her arms up against Nigeria, you just see a little hint of disrespect between the two.
āThatās natural, and that can happen when youāve been in a camp for so long.
āBut you just started to feel that a couple of the bigger egos in the dressing room were starting to go against herā¦ā
āWhat weāve seen now is player power, the girls have decided that theyāre not gelling with Vera.
āTo be fair, that hasnāt transferred onto the pitch. I donāt think we were looking onto the pitch thinking, āsomethingās not right here.ā To my eye, they were playing for her, playing well,ā added the former Burnley and Blackburn player.
š£ļø "I think she's been harshly done by."
š£ļø "What we're seeing now is player power. It was untenable."
š£ļø "There's been a clear disconnect and invariably, the manager is the one who pays."
Keith and Damien react to the news that Vera Pauw's contract isn't being renewed." pic.twitter.com/Ulp5MRlQPH
ā Virgin Media Sport (@VMSportIE) August 30, 2023
Delaney, meanwhile, says that, in time, Pauwās legacy will shine brighter.
āLook, itās very difficult to get a handle on whatās happened.
āThereās obviously a bit of a disconnect between the players and the manager. Something is not quite right. Perhaps in the future, the reasons and the report might be published.
āBut unless youāre in the room and can get a feel for whatās being said, how itās being said and how itās being taken you know, itās very hard to come down on either side. Thereās been a clear disconnnect and invariably, the manager pays the price.
āBut her legacy will shine better in time. She broke through that glass-ceiling.
āShe inspired a generation of young girls to take up the sport, to increase the player pool size in Ireland.
āI remember as a young boy watching Italia ā90, USA ā94, that was what got us into football, made us want to be professional footballers.
āHopefully thereās a generation of young girls and in time, people will look back on Vera Pauw with a favourable tone.ā
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